I asked God to make my handicapped child whole.
God said No, her spirit was whole, her body was only temporary.

I asked God to grant me patience.
God said No, patience is a by-product of tribulations, it isn't granted, it is earned.

I asked God to give me happiness.
God said No, I give you blessings, happiness is up to you.

I asked God to spare me pain.
God said No, Suffering draws you apart from worldly cares and brings you closer to me.

I asked God to make my spirit grow.
God said No, you must grow on your own, but I will prune you to make you fruitful.

I asked for all things that I might enjoy life.
God said No, I will give you life so that you may enjoy all things.

I asked God to help me love others, as much as He loves me.
God said... Ahhh, finally you have the idea.